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Tips for co-parents trying to get through the summer

Summer brings warmth, longer days, and for many children, a break from school. For divorced or separated parents, however, it can also bring added challenges to co-parenting arrangements. Here are some essential tips for making co-parenting during the summer months easier.

Start discussing summer plans as early as possible. Waiting until the last minute can create unnecessary stress and potential conflict. Consider your child’s summer activities, vacations and other events. This early dialogue allows both parents to voice their plans and negotiate any needed adjustments.

Flexibility can make everything more tolerable

Remember, summer should be a fun time for your children. Be flexible with your co-parenting schedule to accommodate special events and experiences. Allow for changes, within reason, and expect the same in return.

Communicate clearly and directly 

Maintain open and transparent communication about travel dates, summer camps or any changes to the regular schedule. Providing all details ahead of time helps prevent misunderstandings and ensures both parents feel involved.

Mutual respect benefits everyone 

Just as you want your ex-partner to respect your time with the children, you should do the same. Unless it’s an emergency, avoid interrupting your children’s time with the other parent. Encourage children to stay connected with the other parent through calls or video chats. It will help your children feel loved and secure.

Co-parenting during the summer doesn’t have to be a stressful experience. With early planning, clear communication and a focus on the kids, you can create a summer that’s enjoyable and enriching for everyone involved.